{"id":818,"date":"2016-02-23T13:24:48","date_gmt":"2016-02-23T12:24:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/petershus.se\/?p=818"},"modified":"2016-02-23T13:26:06","modified_gmt":"2016-02-23T12:26:06","slug":"vanner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/petershus.se\/?p=818","title":{"rendered":"V\u00e4nner"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>V\u00e4nner finns det m\u00e5nga sorter av. En del har vi j\u00e4mt omkring oss, de bara finns d\u00e4r och har alltid funnits d\u00e4r, oavsett geografiska eller andra\u00a0avst\u00e5nd. De v\u00e4nnerna \u00e4r ov\u00e4rderliga, men tas lite f\u00f6r sj\u00e4lvklara ibland.<\/p>\n<p>Andra v\u00e4nner fanns d\u00e4r, men v\u00e4garna skildes \u00e5t, kontakten br\u00f6ts. De v\u00e4nnerna minns vi, gl\u00f6mmer vi inte.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e5gra som vi trodde var v\u00e5ra v\u00e4nner. De var inte det. De vill vi helst gl\u00f6mma, men det \u00e4r sv\u00e5rt.<\/p>\n<p>Jag har v\u00e4nner av alla dessa sorter.<\/p>\n<p>De som alltid finns d\u00e4r. De som kontakten brutits med. De som inte var v\u00e4nner.<\/p>\n<p>Jag hoppas jag ocks\u00e5 \u00e4r en v\u00e4n som alltid finns d\u00e4r.<\/p>\n<p>Jag skulle vilja \u00e5terknyta kontakten med m\u00e5nga som tappats bort. En s\u00e5dan v\u00e4n hittade jag bara f\u00f6r n\u00e5gra dagar sedan. Inte pratat, tr\u00e4ffats, p\u00e5 kanske tjugo \u00e5r. Efter tio minuter upplevdes tjugo \u00e5rs separation som en vecka, en dag. D\u00e5 vet man, v\u00e4nner f\u00f6r livet, oavsett avst\u00e5nd i tid och rum.<\/p>\n<p>Jag har ocks\u00e5 haft v\u00e4nner som inte var v\u00e4nner. Kanske \u00e4r jag detsamma f\u00f6r dem. Tyv\u00e4rr \u00e4r det allt f\u00f6r ofta dessa m\u00e4nniskors avtryck som jag l\u00e5ter finnas i sinnet: Ilska, sorg, besvikelse. Det borde inte ha s\u00e5 stor betydelse i mitt liv.<\/p>\n<p>De verkliga v\u00e4nnerna \u00e4r viktiga. S\u00e5dana v\u00e4nners avtryck vill jag alltid ha i sinnet: Gl\u00e4dje, k\u00e4rlek, tillit. Det har stor betydelse i mitt liv.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>V\u00e4nner finns det m\u00e5nga sorter av. En del har vi j\u00e4mt omkring oss, de bara finns d\u00e4r och har alltid funnits d\u00e4r, oavsett geografiska eller andra\u00a0avst\u00e5nd. De v\u00e4nnerna \u00e4r ov\u00e4rderliga, men tas lite f\u00f6r sj\u00e4lvklara ibland. Andra v\u00e4nner fanns d\u00e4r, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/petershus.se\/?p=818\">Forts\u00e4tt l\u00e4sa <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-818","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-noveller"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/petershus.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/818","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/petershus.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/petershus.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petershus.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petershus.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=818"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/petershus.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/818\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":820,"href":"https:\/\/petershus.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/818\/revisions\/820"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/petershus.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=818"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petershus.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=818"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petershus.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=818"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}